let's talk about you
It is true that the connection between sex and power as a woman might seem alien to you.
But back when you first set out to determine your life as an adult, put all your hopes, dreams and ambitions in place. Back in the days when you set upon a strategy that you hoped would help you realise those dreams. And then after all those years chipping away and showing up for said strategies. Really putting in your life blood.....
Did you really think that when you would end up getting practically everything you wanted - career, children, or both - and that you would still wake in the middle of the night feeling like something was missing?
Did you really envision that your life would have you irate and exhausted?
Did you actually see yourself caring more deeply about what other people thought of you,than what you actually thought of them? Constantly in service to the altar that is other people?
Believe me, I have been there too.
Somewhere along the journey between leaving home and finally waking up, I forgot. I forgot I had a body. I forgot love was available to me everywhere. I forgot I was a sovereign being and that boundaries were effortless. I forgot that life was immense fun. And that people were beautiful. And that magic is my birthright. I forgot I had a purpose, a North Star and a reason for being here in a world that fucking needs me right now. I just forgot.
And it's easy to forget sometimes. It's normal to forget. And we forget who we are because of beliefs just like these:
Look. I am a powerful woman already. Stressed AF. But powerful.
I feel guilty if I focus too much on myself. Life is about compromise. And putting myself first is selfish in every way. It's just not a nice way to behave.
I have no idea why you're talking about sex. I don't have time for sex. It's hardly a priority over everything else. Plus I rarely feel turned on if I am honest.
so lETS TALK ABOUT SEX AND POWER
It's been my own experience in life then, that the more I leant away from my body, especially from my innate blueprint for pleasure, the less personal power I actually felt on a day to day basis.
I have always been interested in and enjoyed sex. But as I got into my mid forties I felt a newer and more profound sense of hunger. I started to question the type of sex I was having. To examine my relationship with desire overall.
I guess you could say it was a kind of mid-life crisis. I pretty much had everything I had ever wanted - including a so called healthy sex life. And still I was left wondering.....
Is this IT?
What unfolded then was an adventure of the highest order. I began to take workshops on sex. I read about female sexuality. I explored my relationship to my own body and to what my sex was actually capable of. And what I found really blew my mind:
I discovered that the more I took care of my sex, the less strung out I felt, and the more plugged in to a kind of endless, grounded electricity supply.
In other words, if my life was the rocket. Then my sex, it turns out, was the rocket fuel.
To be honest, this discovery really fascinated me. This connection between sex and power. Particularly because it was totally contradictory to all the advice and education I had gained over the years. And I began to get curious.
Where were the guides to female pleasure?
Where were the routes to feminine power?
Not in the textbooks of religion, medicine or popular culture, that was for sure.
Even the classic feminist arguments had, so far as I could tell, often neglected this part of my life as a woman.
So I dug in. I got myself educated. I went deep into training with some brilliant teachers. Turns out this orgasmic power thing has a lineage - who'd have thought it?!
Plus, I also made a map....
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introducing the 9 pillars of feminine power
Because I got to thinking. All this stuff about feminine power. That maybe you might want a taste of what this kind of journey would mean for you too?
And because lighting the fire under another woman's empowerment journey keeps me warm, I decided to create a system designed specifically with you in mind - to help you take the steps needed towards a more embodied sense of personal potency and pleasure in your life.
what is this system exactly?
The 9 Pillars to Feminine Power are not linear, but more like a series of cyclical discoveries. All unique and potent in their own right, but each interdependent and strengthened by their relationship to the others.
I have put together this unique system based on my own experience and trainings, in order to help you understand some of the steps you will need to take, and which areas of your life that you will need to focus on in order to access the rocket fuel you desire by journeying with this Pillar model.
In doing so, you will find some Pillars are naturally be stronger in you than others. And some potentially very tricky for you to navigate alone.
Not to worry. Because even by beginning you are setting your intentions on the feminine empowerment path. And with intention always comes results.
First step to getting to know my system, is to download the FREE guide available below:
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Discover the 9 Pillars - what you specifically need to get your life into full gear
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See how each Pillar links into the others and builds momentum
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who is this training for?
My practice is full of women just like you
Women like you work hard for independence, freedom and personal success on every level - whether that's family, entrepreneurship or the boardroom.
I know that sometimes the odds against you can feel tangible.
Still you get up every day. Pushing your own edges.
All the while you’re either lonely or exhausted or both.
Wracked with the need to please.
Bereft upon a life that gives a fuck about what people think of you.
And that’s why I’m here.
As an advocate for your sexual liberation and orgasmic empowerment.
WHAT WILL THIS TRAINING GIVE YOU?
what others are saying
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"Julia's coaching became something that I looked forward to every week. She has a blend of warmth and honesty, approval and penetrating insight that had me trust in her and let go in our sessions. I was able to drop into the deeper things - and found clarity over some mother issues in a single session! She has a special skillset and I would highly recommend coaching with her."
Katie Saxon - North London
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"I loved working with Julia. She helped me uncover desires and next steps for my future. She also got me to unconscious blocks at were holding me back from achieving these desires. I felt lovingly supported and held throughout the entire process. Julia's coaching is very body based... it helped me understand fears that were rooted in my body in a way that no other coaching had done before. I cannot recommend Julia enough as a coach - it's a truly transformative experience."
Caoilfhionn Nic Conmara - East London
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"Wonderful Julia. She nudged me firmly and yet encouraged me to stretch my comfort zone with the kind of gentleness I crave. She helped me get back in touch with the soft whispers of desire and intuition. Dissolving grief that had blocked and hardened me for a long time.
Many months after her coaching her work is still having a deep impact on my day to day life , and my dreams are coming into physical form. In an even better way than I thought possible.
So much love for this incredible, witchy woman.
Emma Tapsell - Kent
MY CREDENTIALS
Over 800 hours of training under my belt, I have immersed myself in sexuality, communication and embodiment practices for the last ten years.
Initially a breath work teacher (Buteyko, not shamanic), I went on to become a practitioner and trainer of Orgasmic Meditation, completing the OM coaching programme in 2017.
I then went on to further my study and toolset with Layla Martin's Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality. With a burning passion to widen my repertoire and skills, and to really dig deeply into the essential pleasure practices needed for the liberation of the modern man, woman and couple relationship.
More recently I have been immersing myself in sexual somatics and trauma release - mentoring or studying with trauma experts Shelby Leigh, and Rachael Maddox.
I am also a mother, an artist and a founder and co-owner of a successful ethical business based in the UK - and in terms of living and breathing the teachings I offer, I have really and truly had to walk my talk.
just want to know about my coaching?
The 9 Pillars of Power system is available to you completely free.
However, some of you come straight to me asking about my coaching and how it works. So if you want to go for the deep-dive 1:1 curated experience of power reclamation, here is some information about how coaching works with me.
I have invested a lot in my training over the years. This means I am fully equipped to serve you with whichever tool feels appropriate and right in the moment and I pride myself on my eclectic approach. I do not follow any one particular school of thought or dogma. However, I remain dedicated to helping you live the fullness of your orgasmic power potential and some of the ways in which you will find me working are as follows:
Integrative
Your power will not be rushed. We work at the rate of the slowest passenger. In other words - nothing changes for real until we learn to listen to, embrace and integrate the unwanted aspects of ourselves. Your orgasm wants you to slow down and include it all. Power will always be elusive if you don't.
Body Based
My modality has been honed to work with both body and mind. You will be given practices that will take you deep into the body through sensation, sensuality and sexuality practices for you to use at home. The more you know how to relax into your body, the more comfortably your power will appear.
Trauma Aware
I am fully trained to be aware of pain or past traumas that might surface as a result of our work. You will never be asked to do anything you do not want to do. Whilst not a trauma expert, I am 100% trauma aware and we can go super gently if needed.
Pleasurable Practices
Not only is pleasure our birthright, but it serves as our best resource when encountering that which we fear. We will use desire as a compass. Orgasm as your route to power. This has to feel good, even when it hurts.
Witchy Sex Magic
There is nothing new in all this. These are the old ways and women have always known them and used them intimately. We may use ritual. We will work with symbol. With intention. With the desire to manifest on a physical level. On creating by focussing the inner outwards. Orgasm is the best tool we have when it comes to the unification of will.
Healing and Balancing
What lies unexpressed in you? Do you have your masculine and feminine energies in balance and available to you in your life? We can use inner child tools or work with powerful archetypal symbols and other ways of accessing your subconscious to address what's needed for you.
READY TO FULLY CLAIM YOUR POWER?
No matter where you are on your EMPOWERMENT journey:
I am here to help you unlock your potential.
Explore my FREE training and understand the 9 Pillars of Feminine Power - the key pillars you must have in place in order to rocket fuel your life. And how orgasm plays such a crucial part in it.
Alternatively, if you would like to explore the possibility of coaching with me personally, then click the button below to schedule a free, no sales pressure exploratory call today.
During the call we will spend our time looking at what you would like to achieve in terms of your empowerment, what is currently blocking you from having it, what the relationship might be between your freeze and your sex, and whether we are a good fit to go on a coaching journey together to get you there.