TALKING 'BOUT MAGNETISM

Pretty often in my online Temple I talk about  the code of clarity, and how you really cannot have an empowered and turned on life without getting clear. 

True to form then,  in previous episodes of my podcast You Can Have It, I talked about coming out of the fog and how to stop using confusion as a default state. How to get familiar with ways of feeling our bodies through interoception and proprioception. How to tune into desire - a base state if you like - to allow it to really anchor us in, with gravity, to our life’s purpose. We have also explored through the power of intentionality and sticking to your word, and how marrying desire with action will keep you grounded and help the universe to meet you half way.

Today we look at what all this clarity leads to - which is more magnetism.

what is magnetism?

The importance of magnetism is talked about a lot in feminine coaching spaces.

Let's have a look at why and what it all means:

Firstly, we can understand that humans are electromagnetic beings and we emit a frequency that is measurable.  Interestingly, this frequency will change depending on our emotional state and levels of stress.

Furthermore, it is well documented that the frequency known as the "Schumann Resonance"  is identical to the alpha waves in our brains - helping creativity and performance.. (The Schumann resonance is actually 7.82 Hz, which is also the earth’s natural frequency. So in other words we can begin to see why spending time in nature would help our brains relax and function well. They literally operate in good health at the same frequency.)

The great thing about this is obvious - we can both settle into an optimum frequency for rest and wellbeing. But there is more to it than that.

At a particular frequency we also  to attract (aka magnetise) other beings, situations and events that are also vibrating at the same healthy resonance. In other words, we become a vibrational match with that which we are longing for.

And when this happens? 

Well then creating what we want becomes easy.

ELEVATED EMOTIONS AND MAGNETISM

But it's not just about the Schumann Resonance.

In fact, any emotion that is resonant with an elevated heart state, will actually cause your being to vibrate in a way that simply draws beautiful things into your field.

Think of an experience you may have had in this life where everything flowed for you - where things arrived “as if by magic”. Can you remember one thing? And what were you feeling just before?

My guess is you were feeling positive, hopeful and expanded in some way.

This is classic Joe Dispenza work, and he calls this the practice of cultivating an "elevated emotion" and you can listen to a podcast I made about this very concept HERE.

Essentially, what I am saying is that if you match an elevated state (or one that carries the heart frequency resonance), with an intention, and keep holding that resonance through practice, you are more likely to find your dreams manifesting with ease before your very eyes.

And even if I'm wrong? Well it's a hella fun game to play!

WHAT ARE ELEVATED EMOTIONS THAT CAUSE MAGNETISM?

Dispenza talks about how the elevated emotions are all heart-centred, open the heart in some way. For example:

Gratitude, appreciation, thankfulness, love for life, inspiration, anticipation and excitement of the unknown. All these emotions will foster elevation and create the vibration you are looking for.

With all these emotional states we enter a state of oneness with the universe. In other words once elevated energy reaches the heart, it emits a measurable resonant field. And the resonance of the heart carries a magnetism. All sorts of opportunities and serendipities will occur as a result.

This is, truly, magic in action.

Most people live in their past conditioning - scarcity, lack, fear, anger, competition. And they wait for their external circumstances to change. But being stuck in a belief centred around these kinds of survival emotions will shift your life forward.

achieving magnetism through elevated sexual states

I love Joe Dispenza's work.

But I do also find it a little startling that he seems to leave sexual energy out of the mix entirely when he talks about ways to elevate.

Frankly, the tantric traditions - and even technology like Kundalini yoga which has all sorts of mantras and yoga poses aimed at creating certain health and enlightenment-giving resonances - have more to say about moving this core, primal energy. And how powerful this can be as a way to elevate your emotional state of resonance.

Taoism, for example, specifically gives us practices to combine heart and sex, as a means to elevating and alchemising by channeling turn on through the heart. (And up into the third eye. But that's a whole other article.)

As a sex witch this is truly my bread and butter.

It's the reason why I even started Initiate - my 3 month sex magic mastermind for women. As a deep dive into playing with these concepts of attraction and magnetism, through conscious self-pleasure and sexually elevated states. (If you want to know when Initiate opens again then you can sign up HERE.)

ways to clarify your resonance so it is magnetic

So if like attracts like then it makes sense to get yourself in a positive state.

When we get clear on our intentions and then marry them with a positive resonance - our bodies don’t know the difference between the actual reality of having the thing you desire, and the feeling of having the thing you desire.

So this is where gratitudes can come in very powerfully.

In fact, you can call in you future by feeling the gratitude for it ahead of time.

Gratitude practice

One of the simplest and most effective journalling practices I know. Do not underestimate the power of writing your daily gratitudes. (I like to do this before bed.) The universe really responds to gratitude - not only will you change your resonance, but you will start receiving more of what it is you were grateful for in the first place. A classic exercise in feminine magnetism!

Self-pleasure

Sex magic uses the power of self-pleasure (or even partnered ecercises) to help shift your heart and brain into a state of elevated consciousness. You can try imagining your desired for outcome as you self-pleasure. Infuse the scenario with delight (rather than unconscious dread of the change this outcome might bring in your life.)

Such play helps the brain feel safe to receive.

And that is the key to all this:

Expansion. Play. Feelgood. Resonance.

Have fun.

(PS - like the sound of all this? Then get yourself onto the waitlist for Initiate - my 3 month deep dive mastermind in sex magic and divine feminine manifestation HERE and you'll be the first to know when I open the programme again.)